Most of us are attractive in some way. But are you ready to be “wildly” attractive? We feel really good when we know we’re attractive to o...
Most of us are attractive in some way. But are you ready to be “wildly” attractive? We feel really good when we know we’re attractive to others, especially the opposite sex (or the same sex).
When we make a positive impression, we feel it in our mind, heart and our soul. It feels good! Being attractive is a turn-on to those we love and those with whom we seek to have a romantic relationship.
Of course, most of us go through periods where we feel unattractive, too. Sometimes, the hard part is figuring out how to motivate ourselves to feel and be more attractive. You can become an even more beautiful person on the outside and especially on the inside. Here’s how you can be more attractive to the sex you most want to appeal to:
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Personality
You may have had an ex from your past say, “Grow up, girl!” or “Dude, you’ve got some serious issues!” It is the time to let go of immature attitudes that stem from your childhood and early environment that are no longer appropriate as an adult. On a personal level, you’re expanding your world-view and becoming more mature and sophisticated about life in general.
You’re feeling confident in yourself and the impression you make on others, and you’re eager to have new experiences that will help you grow as a person. That’s muy attractive! Enjoy a self-discovery workshop to aid your personal development. It’s also a fortunate time to be in therapy, where you’ll grow psychologically by resolving emotional issues working with a therapist. You’ll no longer need to be a drama queen.
Appearance
It’s easy! Finally get rid of that toupee, and no longer hear jokes like, “Is that a pet squirrel on your head?” This is a fortuitous time to get those hair transplants. But seriously: discover a unique facility you may be unfamiliar with. It’s called: the gym. You have an exceptional opportunity to enhance your physical glow by taking care of yourself through an exercise program and mindful, real food regimen to get fit.
Generosity
Even though you are no longer a kid—this is when you’ll give yourself permission to buy that new red Corvette you dreamed of having when you were a teenager. (You won’t even care about those jealous people who think you’re only compensating for “something”.) You’ll be generous with the people you have relationships with, thoughtfully buying them gifts. That is a very attractive quality.
Learn
Improve yourself educationally because you’re drawn to wisdom and have a thirst for knowledge. In addition, you’ll likely win the support of mentors and teachers. So, it’s an excellent time to go back to school, take courses, seminars for higher learning or pursue an advanced degree. Having a higher intellect makes you even more attractive because there is always a shortage of smart men and women (especially ones that can quote PBS instead of Fox News).
Excel
Accomplish your goals by approaching powerful or influential people because they will be of huge assistance to you. They’ll see you as being confident with natural leadership ability. You may be honored and receive recognition or even prestige during this transit. At work, this is a fortunate time to seek a pay raise or attempt to win a promotion at work. Being upwardly mobile is sexy! People find high-achieving people attractive. This is when you make your big move from the mailroom to management or president to chairwoman-of-the board.
Creativity
Who doesn’t find an author attractive? But if you aren’t ready to write like Ernest Hemingway, pen a card or a poem to someone you like. That’s attractive, too.
Spirituality
Take up yoga; begin a spiritual or religious activity. Consider going on a meditative retreat to expand your consciousness where you can learn new truths about yourself (like the fact that you have been a “douche-bag” in your past three relationships. And that is definitely not attractive). It’s a great time to start yoga or go more often to your yoga class. People will come to class and place their mat behind you (just to look at your butt). You are just that attractive.
Politics
If you have any political aspirations, run for office (even for the MENSA group you belong to). There is nothing more attractive than a powerful politician. Watch the last three seasons of “House of Cards” and channel your Kevin Spacey “I am the President” persona. And people will say, “Yes sir (or Yes ma’am). Will there be anything else? Or should I just have your limousine ready?” (A limo definitely makes you more attractive.)
Travel
Travel somewhere—where you can become more worldly, sophisticated and, in the process, a more interesting person. Take that trip to Machu Picchu. It will help you forget that embarrassing moment when you were trying to impress that hottie and said, “Isn’t Machu Picchu that small town outside of Tucson?”
Laugh
Your spirits will rise and you’ll feel like smiling more. Happy, laughing people are the most attractive people on the planet. That’s what people, regardless of sex, will find most attractive about you.
Source: NairaMag
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