Not every man you date will really fall in love with you. There are certain things a guy would do that make you notice if he is the right on...
Not every man you date will really fall in love with you. There are certain things a guy would do that make you notice if he is the right one for you. If you are planning to spend the rest of your life with one man, you need to know more if he is the right one.
And also you need to know if your partner is serious to make a commitment with you. There is nothing more hurtful and upsetting than being in a dead end relationship along the way. Is he the right one for you? Keep your eyes open for signs that will let you know if your boyfriend will marry you.
1. When you started to talk about your future, he smiles and change the topic later on.
- What would you feel if the person you love deeply always changing subjects when future planning is the theme? It hurts, right? Much worse if you both dating over the years, but future planning never comes up in his mind.
2. He always spends his time to his friends at a night club.
- Going to night clubs sometimes is normal for guys so they can chill out or for them to feel relieved from stressful work. But when a guy always spends most of his time with his so called ” guy friends” and always go to night clubs. Don’t think it is his reason to relieve his stress. He might be flirting with other ladies. Remember, not only guys went to clubs, girls too.
3. If your guy doesn’t take you out for dinner and prefer to stay at home especially on special occasions.
- It feels amazing when your anniversary is approaching. You begin to think what clothes to wear, where would your boyfriend take you out for dinner, or watch movies together or traveling outside the city or country. You feel excited, right? But when the day comes, your boyfriend comes home late, stress from work and prefer to celebrate the occasion at home because for him, it still doesn’t matter and making excuses like presence are better, sweet talks for you to agree with him. blah blah.. Then it’s time for you to take a serious action.
4. He always make excuses
- If you love your boyfriend, you want to introduce him to your family. But when he always make excuses not to attend your family gatherings, not even interested to meet your family. Guess what, he might not be interested in you either!
5. He lied during your courtship
- Everybody puts their best words and effort in the early stages, but exaggeration is one thing. If he lied about his status and career or how many girls he’s been with, then he’s probably lying about what he wants out of a relationship, and what he’s willing to give.
6. You’re not close to his friends and to his family
- An important indication he will never marry is if he doesn’t make an effort to introduce you to his friends and his family. I am sure you’ve met them a couple of times on a couple of occasions, but if he sees you as his future wife and planning to marry you, he will make sure that they know you as more than some he’s dating. He will ensure that you’re as much a part of their lives as a family.
7. He wants the relationship to be all about him
- Everything is about what he wants and needs, and yours don’t matter. That’s not to say it should be all about you, either. A married couple is a team, it’s not about one person getting what they want, it’s about what’s best for the team.
8. Best complainer and demander
- If he keeps complaining about what you do or where you work, or he’s attempting to beat you to conform to his mode of thinking and doing things, and not making your opinions and deeds proper respect.. Time to hit the road, he will not marry you.
9. He is not proud of you
- Action is better than words. Even if your boyfriend keeps saying he appreciates you, but he never let you feel it. It’s still useless. Appreciation can be determined by your actions, emotions or if he feels proud about you. He won’t feel embarrassed of you.
10. Too secretive
- He loves to keep hiding things from you or not even willing to open up problems with you. If you have this kind of guy, re-evaluate your relationship. He may be trying to hide something from you!
Are you having these issues? Has your partner shown these signs? Communicate with your partner and discuss these issues to figure out if you’re both meant for each other.
Source: LaneLamani.
And also you need to know if your partner is serious to make a commitment with you. There is nothing more hurtful and upsetting than being in a dead end relationship along the way. Is he the right one for you? Keep your eyes open for signs that will let you know if your boyfriend will marry you.
Signs That He Will Never Marry You |
- What would you feel if the person you love deeply always changing subjects when future planning is the theme? It hurts, right? Much worse if you both dating over the years, but future planning never comes up in his mind.
2. He always spends his time to his friends at a night club.
- Going to night clubs sometimes is normal for guys so they can chill out or for them to feel relieved from stressful work. But when a guy always spends most of his time with his so called ” guy friends” and always go to night clubs. Don’t think it is his reason to relieve his stress. He might be flirting with other ladies. Remember, not only guys went to clubs, girls too.
3. If your guy doesn’t take you out for dinner and prefer to stay at home especially on special occasions.
- It feels amazing when your anniversary is approaching. You begin to think what clothes to wear, where would your boyfriend take you out for dinner, or watch movies together or traveling outside the city or country. You feel excited, right? But when the day comes, your boyfriend comes home late, stress from work and prefer to celebrate the occasion at home because for him, it still doesn’t matter and making excuses like presence are better, sweet talks for you to agree with him. blah blah.. Then it’s time for you to take a serious action.
4. He always make excuses
- If you love your boyfriend, you want to introduce him to your family. But when he always make excuses not to attend your family gatherings, not even interested to meet your family. Guess what, he might not be interested in you either!
5. He lied during your courtship
- Everybody puts their best words and effort in the early stages, but exaggeration is one thing. If he lied about his status and career or how many girls he’s been with, then he’s probably lying about what he wants out of a relationship, and what he’s willing to give.
6. You’re not close to his friends and to his family
- An important indication he will never marry is if he doesn’t make an effort to introduce you to his friends and his family. I am sure you’ve met them a couple of times on a couple of occasions, but if he sees you as his future wife and planning to marry you, he will make sure that they know you as more than some he’s dating. He will ensure that you’re as much a part of their lives as a family.
7. He wants the relationship to be all about him
- Everything is about what he wants and needs, and yours don’t matter. That’s not to say it should be all about you, either. A married couple is a team, it’s not about one person getting what they want, it’s about what’s best for the team.
8. Best complainer and demander
- If he keeps complaining about what you do or where you work, or he’s attempting to beat you to conform to his mode of thinking and doing things, and not making your opinions and deeds proper respect.. Time to hit the road, he will not marry you.
9. He is not proud of you
- Action is better than words. Even if your boyfriend keeps saying he appreciates you, but he never let you feel it. It’s still useless. Appreciation can be determined by your actions, emotions or if he feels proud about you. He won’t feel embarrassed of you.
10. Too secretive
- He loves to keep hiding things from you or not even willing to open up problems with you. If you have this kind of guy, re-evaluate your relationship. He may be trying to hide something from you!
Are you having these issues? Has your partner shown these signs? Communicate with your partner and discuss these issues to figure out if you’re both meant for each other.
Source: LaneLamani.
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