When sweet words are being delivered with sincerity, there are also words that could ruin your relationship, it may be at a workplace, at sc...
When sweet words are being delivered with sincerity, there are also words that could ruin your relationship, it may be at a workplace, at school, or at home with the ones you love. Words that may be taken for granted by the ones who said it, but can cause irreparable damage not just to those who received it, but of course for the ones who pops it – mentally and emotionally, as what the study shows!
One of my favorite quotes to share from the bible comes from Ecclesiasticus, that says: “The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones” (KJV).
Words may sometimes of no apparent value, but indeed, it has the most powerful impact when being delivered. As you are building your relationship to become closer, avoid if possible using these 5 most damaging words that could ruin your relationships:
1. Swear words
Let me take you in a situation when you did not intentionally make errors on your pace at work, and your boss keeps on telling you how messy and screwed you can get. You went home, exasperated about the whole thing happened, you were so devastated on the situation that you keep on saying the F-word at home (because you are carried away by the whole thing and most especially, you really have mastered that word, anyway). How does it feel? Did you get a light feeling by saying that word or the words alike?
Sometimes, we feel the need to say something, but swearing won’t help you by any means. You have avoided the most possible solution that your partner or a family could offer because the damage has been done. You unintentionally hurt her or them, and by that, you are creating another problem out of a problem. You know what? You are not just messing on your job, but you are on the brink of ruining your relationship!
2. Comparison of two
Comparing is the most usual thing and an easy access to be convenient in any way (prices, clothing, accommodation, or a hotel). But, comparing your partner to another (in a way that she might get offended) or comparing your relationship to another (that you want it to be that way) is a BIG NO-NO! It’s not healthy. It’s like you’re eating so much junk that you forget what’s good for you.
You and your partner or any closer relationships, you are entitled for better or much, the best way on handling relationships. You do not simply say [to your partner] “Kate knows how to please Darryl” or “Ethan and Dianne spent their vacation in London, that’s so sweet of him”. If you have this kind of attitude, stop it! You’re far to knit that relationship together and instead, you are ruining a promising relationship in the future!
3. Bad-mouthing
It’s not nice to know that you’re always saying bad things about your partner to your friends or his friends. You as his partner, you should be his constant companion, especially on overcoming his weaknesses – and it’s vice versa. You do not simply commit yourself just to criticize him in any manner you want, it’s not that. But, you are there to help each other, to build each other, and to truly love each other.
When you wished to build closer ties, you do not need those vulgar or painful words to the other, believe me, it won’t help it to have a better partner or a man you could be proud of in the future. Think again!
4. Whining here, blaming there
Literally, you are lack of consideration for your partner. You prefer complaining about everything and put the blame to your other half. You’re being unfair to your judgments which may result for your break-up – that’s the worst thing that could happen.
Words like you’re tired, you’re fed up and it’s all because of him! Let’s cut it! If you have something to say, if there’s anything wrong, talk to him, confront him and never disregard each other’s value. You do not have to spill it, out of your relationship, but get your ass on a couch, grab champagne, and talk!
5. Lies
Who would want one, anyway? If you are in a relationship, you do not need all the sugar coating and alike in every sense. Because all you want, all I want – what we all wanted is being who we are – being real. You better tell the truth and learn to accept the fact that you have committed mistakes, and eventually be forgiven, than tell a precious lie and one day – you will be forgotten, because everything has ruined! Damage has been done, words were irrevocable. And it’s too late to start all over again.
As words may be so powerful, deceit is one way to simply ruin everything you have started with. So as you put it that way, think of how you hated being lied to – in that case, you will do your best, to become true to your partner, in all possible ways you can!
Ladies and Gents – every individual has his/her own right to express what he/she really wants, feels, and how one would be able to connect to the other. But do not ever forget that when you are in the midst of uncertainties, depression and situation you feel like giving up, these 5 damaging words won’t really help – hold on to wonderful and positive things you and your partner had ever made! Hold on to that promises, compliments, and words that lift up the both of you.
5 Most Damaging Words That Can Ruin Your Relationships | By: K.C.L Basco
One of my favorite quotes to share from the bible comes from Ecclesiasticus, that says: “The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones” (KJV).
Words may sometimes of no apparent value, but indeed, it has the most powerful impact when being delivered. As you are building your relationship to become closer, avoid if possible using these 5 most damaging words that could ruin your relationships:
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| The Most Damaging Words That Can Ruin Your Relationships. |
Let me take you in a situation when you did not intentionally make errors on your pace at work, and your boss keeps on telling you how messy and screwed you can get. You went home, exasperated about the whole thing happened, you were so devastated on the situation that you keep on saying the F-word at home (because you are carried away by the whole thing and most especially, you really have mastered that word, anyway). How does it feel? Did you get a light feeling by saying that word or the words alike?
Sometimes, we feel the need to say something, but swearing won’t help you by any means. You have avoided the most possible solution that your partner or a family could offer because the damage has been done. You unintentionally hurt her or them, and by that, you are creating another problem out of a problem. You know what? You are not just messing on your job, but you are on the brink of ruining your relationship!
2. Comparison of two
Comparing is the most usual thing and an easy access to be convenient in any way (prices, clothing, accommodation, or a hotel). But, comparing your partner to another (in a way that she might get offended) or comparing your relationship to another (that you want it to be that way) is a BIG NO-NO! It’s not healthy. It’s like you’re eating so much junk that you forget what’s good for you.
You and your partner or any closer relationships, you are entitled for better or much, the best way on handling relationships. You do not simply say [to your partner] “Kate knows how to please Darryl” or “Ethan and Dianne spent their vacation in London, that’s so sweet of him”. If you have this kind of attitude, stop it! You’re far to knit that relationship together and instead, you are ruining a promising relationship in the future!
3. Bad-mouthing
It’s not nice to know that you’re always saying bad things about your partner to your friends or his friends. You as his partner, you should be his constant companion, especially on overcoming his weaknesses – and it’s vice versa. You do not simply commit yourself just to criticize him in any manner you want, it’s not that. But, you are there to help each other, to build each other, and to truly love each other.
When you wished to build closer ties, you do not need those vulgar or painful words to the other, believe me, it won’t help it to have a better partner or a man you could be proud of in the future. Think again!
4. Whining here, blaming there
Literally, you are lack of consideration for your partner. You prefer complaining about everything and put the blame to your other half. You’re being unfair to your judgments which may result for your break-up – that’s the worst thing that could happen.
Words like you’re tired, you’re fed up and it’s all because of him! Let’s cut it! If you have something to say, if there’s anything wrong, talk to him, confront him and never disregard each other’s value. You do not have to spill it, out of your relationship, but get your ass on a couch, grab champagne, and talk!
5. Lies
Who would want one, anyway? If you are in a relationship, you do not need all the sugar coating and alike in every sense. Because all you want, all I want – what we all wanted is being who we are – being real. You better tell the truth and learn to accept the fact that you have committed mistakes, and eventually be forgiven, than tell a precious lie and one day – you will be forgotten, because everything has ruined! Damage has been done, words were irrevocable. And it’s too late to start all over again.
As words may be so powerful, deceit is one way to simply ruin everything you have started with. So as you put it that way, think of how you hated being lied to – in that case, you will do your best, to become true to your partner, in all possible ways you can!
Ladies and Gents – every individual has his/her own right to express what he/she really wants, feels, and how one would be able to connect to the other. But do not ever forget that when you are in the midst of uncertainties, depression and situation you feel like giving up, these 5 damaging words won’t really help – hold on to wonderful and positive things you and your partner had ever made! Hold on to that promises, compliments, and words that lift up the both of you.
5 Most Damaging Words That Can Ruin Your Relationships | By: K.C.L Basco
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