How many times do you hear or read that communication is important in a relationship? Well, it’s no wonder because it is. It’s super impor...
How many times do you hear or read that communication is important in a relationship? Well, it’s no wonder because it is. It’s super important. Talking helps you understand each other and it’s only through communication that you can understand the problems in your relationship so you can take remedial action. Some problems you can fix by changing the way you act, others you can fix by talking.
You may spend the rest of the day angry with your man because the woman he looked at has bigger boobs or better legs than you, but the fact is he cannot remember a thing about the women in question.
This is one of the relationship problems you can fix with talking because all you have to explain to him is that you find it a little hurtful and disrespectful when he does it in front of you. He will still do it, but he will rein it in a little more. If he leers, then you have another problem, but innocently looking at other women (looking, not touching) will become less prevalent.
Talk about it with him. Let him know that you wish you could spend more time together, and discuss activities you can do together with the baby. Also, when baby is asleep, remember there is a grown man waiting in the wings to soak up your attention.
1. He Keeps Looking at Other Women when You Are around
Guess what, ladies? He also looks at women when you are not around. This is not a generalization. Men are biologically programmed to look at other women because of the testosterone flowing through their body. But, here is the upside. Despite the fact he spends a few seconds every day looking at other women, it takes him just as long to forget about those women. |
| Relationship Problems You Can Fix with Talking. |
This is one of the relationship problems you can fix with talking because all you have to explain to him is that you find it a little hurtful and disrespectful when he does it in front of you. He will still do it, but he will rein it in a little more. If he leers, then you have another problem, but innocently looking at other women (looking, not touching) will become less prevalent.
2. He’s More Irritable, Argumentative and Childish since You Gave Birth
You have just gone from making him the center of your world to making your baby the center of your world and men usually don’t react very well to it. Some men will act ridiculous and leave you, others will cheat, others will flirt, others will gamble, and so on. What some men do is childishly seek attention from you, and the best way to get it is to (ironically) act childishly.Talk about it with him. Let him know that you wish you could spend more time together, and discuss activities you can do together with the baby. Also, when baby is asleep, remember there is a grown man waiting in the wings to soak up your attention.
3. You Want to Hug, but He Doesn’t Want to
Nine times out of ten, a woman wants to hug when a man is doing something. Men are solution orientated, and something such as a hug puts him off. Put him in situations where a hug is part of the process. Put on a movie and hug him on the sofa, have him hug you in the spoon position in bed or tell him you are a champion wrestler and show him your moves. If the worst comes to the worst, fake like you are choking, and when he goes behind you to give you the Heimlich maneuver, you quickly spin around and hug him. Continued Here
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