It’s beyond puzzling, isn’t it? He seems enamoured by you. He can’t get enough of you. He sends the sweetest, most flattering texts every d...
It’s beyond puzzling, isn’t it? He seems enamoured by you. He can’t get enough of you. He sends the sweetest, most flattering texts every day and he expresses that he’s dying to see you and spend time with you. Then, in a flash, he seems to become totally distant. What is going on?
Now, this one is a biggie so pay close attention. Studies show that women feel most connected , loved, and accepted by a man when they spend time with him and make emotional connections. Men generally do not require this to the same degree. They actually need more space to breathe. Women do too, of course, but men do even more so than women.
Women who are clingers, overly jealous, and too demanding of ALL of his time may actually cause their man to desperately search for an air hole to breathe from.
To you, it may feel that your connection continues to grow the more you see him. So you keep calling and texting more often, asking to see him more frequently, and because he really is into you and wants to spend time with you, he agrees. After all, he does like spending time with you, too!
Just make sure you give him his personal space. A few hours without him may seem like an eternity when you are lovestruck but you will survive and your relationship will have a much better chance of doing so as well if he is able to engage in activities he likes or see his friends on his own. You should be doing the same, too!
Chemistry between two people is an extremely powerful thing. In love relationships it’s essential. When one or both partners feel that romantic or sexual magnetism was never there or is now gone, it likely won’t be long before things fall apart.
What if you had crazy chemistry in the beginning but not so much anymore? He used to want to spend every spare moment of his day with you, he felt a high whenever he looked at you with those dreamy eyes, and never mind that he couldn’t keep his hands off you.
Here’s the thing. Long-term relationships require a type of chemistry between two people which goes beyond that initial crazy-in-love-lose-your-mind stage which eventually wears off. This is the type of chemistry that inspires love and long-term commitment.
If he feels that this chemistry is lacking both in your personal and/or sexual connection, he may know that the relationship is not right for him. We’ve all been there. We’ve all had those moments when it dawns on us that we just don’t see the person we were once crazy about fitting into our future. So when it happens, conversations get shorter, phone calls get less frequent, text messages become one word replies, and you find yourself more content being away from that person rather than when you are in their company.
When the chemistry is really gone, it’s gone. Other times, it just needs to be rekindled.
If you feel that there are chemistry issues in your relationship, it’s always best to have a sit down to talk about it and see if it is truly gone or if you both need to make the effort to better connect again.
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part One)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Two)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Final)
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| The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Two) |
3. He feels stifled.
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| He feels stifled. |
Women who are clingers, overly jealous, and too demanding of ALL of his time may actually cause their man to desperately search for an air hole to breathe from.
To you, it may feel that your connection continues to grow the more you see him. So you keep calling and texting more often, asking to see him more frequently, and because he really is into you and wants to spend time with you, he agrees. After all, he does like spending time with you, too!
Just make sure you give him his personal space. A few hours without him may seem like an eternity when you are lovestruck but you will survive and your relationship will have a much better chance of doing so as well if he is able to engage in activities he likes or see his friends on his own. You should be doing the same, too!
4. Lack of chemistry.
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| Lack of chemistry. |
What if you had crazy chemistry in the beginning but not so much anymore? He used to want to spend every spare moment of his day with you, he felt a high whenever he looked at you with those dreamy eyes, and never mind that he couldn’t keep his hands off you.
Here’s the thing. Long-term relationships require a type of chemistry between two people which goes beyond that initial crazy-in-love-lose-your-mind stage which eventually wears off. This is the type of chemistry that inspires love and long-term commitment.
If he feels that this chemistry is lacking both in your personal and/or sexual connection, he may know that the relationship is not right for him. We’ve all been there. We’ve all had those moments when it dawns on us that we just don’t see the person we were once crazy about fitting into our future. So when it happens, conversations get shorter, phone calls get less frequent, text messages become one word replies, and you find yourself more content being away from that person rather than when you are in their company.
When the chemistry is really gone, it’s gone. Other times, it just needs to be rekindled.
If you feel that there are chemistry issues in your relationship, it’s always best to have a sit down to talk about it and see if it is truly gone or if you both need to make the effort to better connect again.
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part One)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Two)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Final)
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