It’s beyond puzzling, isn’t it? He seems enamoured by you. He can’t get enough of you. He sends the sweetest, most flattering texts every...
It’s beyond puzzling, isn’t it? He seems enamoured by you. He can’t get enough of you. He sends the sweetest, most flattering texts every day and he expresses that he’s dying to see you and spend time with you. Then, in a flash, he seems to become totally distant. What is going on?
Have you ever cheated on your partner and they found out about it? If you don’t know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of this betrayal, you can’t possibly know how your partner feels. You may think you know, but you really don’t.
We all know that trust is one of the vital factors in a successful relationship. Once that trust is shattered, the relationship hangs on a thread.
It is possible for someone who has been cheated on to forgive. But they will never forget. That violation of the relationship commitment will never go away – not for the cheater, nor for the one who was cheated on.
If you have cheated on him and he knows about it, it will take a lot of work to build trust in your relationship again. He will inevitably back off to give himself a chance to wrap his brain around how you could hurt him so deeply, and to re-evaluate…well, everything. He will also need the time to think about if and how he wants to proceed in your relationship.
If he is the one who cheated and he even remotely has a conscience, he may become distant because it will be hanging over his head. In most cases, cheating is not a strictly pleasurable act. Once blood moves back to the brain after the throes of passion, the cheater has to live with his or her actions. For some, the guilt may become unbearable causing them to withdraw either because they’re ashamed of what they’ve done or they feel that they don’t deserve you. Most likely, it’s both.
Other times, he’s withdrawing for a reason but doesn’t have the desire to express those reasons to you. It then becomes a guessing game and you’ll have to try to put the pieces of the puzzle together. Decide if this exercise is really worth your time and energy. Is he really that important to you? Have you been together long enough to put the effort into pulling the two of you back together?
If not, put one foot in front of the other and march forward into the next phase of your life with your head held high.
If you honestly think that he is worth it and you feel that you want to save your relationship, you should definitely try. He will have to put the effort in on his end as well.
If you need some further help in trying to understand him and why pulls away, click here for an incredibly detailed guide. Amongst the vast amounts of questions the guide answers, are these:
The guide has helped a tremendous amount of women better understand the men in their lives, why they behave the way they do, and give us tools to empower ourselves in our relationships! It’s well worth going through!
Wishing you happiness and love!
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part One)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Two)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Final)
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| The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away |
5. One of you has cheated
Have you ever been cheated on? If so, you know how devastating it is and how it pulls the foundation out from under your relationship.Have you ever cheated on your partner and they found out about it? If you don’t know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of this betrayal, you can’t possibly know how your partner feels. You may think you know, but you really don’t.
We all know that trust is one of the vital factors in a successful relationship. Once that trust is shattered, the relationship hangs on a thread.
It is possible for someone who has been cheated on to forgive. But they will never forget. That violation of the relationship commitment will never go away – not for the cheater, nor for the one who was cheated on.
If you have cheated on him and he knows about it, it will take a lot of work to build trust in your relationship again. He will inevitably back off to give himself a chance to wrap his brain around how you could hurt him so deeply, and to re-evaluate…well, everything. He will also need the time to think about if and how he wants to proceed in your relationship.
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| The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away |
Making sense of it all
So how do you know exactly why he’s pulling away from you? Firstly, you can ask him straight up. If he’s prepared to be honest with you, he’ll tell you. He may also tell you that nothing is wrong at all. Sometimes we beat a dead horse by overanalyzing our partner’s feelings and actions right down to minute subtleties. Ladies, sometimes we just need to give that a rest. A lot of the time when he says everything is fine, it really is.Other times, he’s withdrawing for a reason but doesn’t have the desire to express those reasons to you. It then becomes a guessing game and you’ll have to try to put the pieces of the puzzle together. Decide if this exercise is really worth your time and energy. Is he really that important to you? Have you been together long enough to put the effort into pulling the two of you back together?
If not, put one foot in front of the other and march forward into the next phase of your life with your head held high.
If you honestly think that he is worth it and you feel that you want to save your relationship, you should definitely try. He will have to put the effort in on his end as well.
If you need some further help in trying to understand him and why pulls away, click here for an incredibly detailed guide. Amongst the vast amounts of questions the guide answers, are these:
- Why does he look at other women?
- Why do men lie?
- Is he cheating on me?
- Why doesn’t he open up to me?
- Why does he get so quiet?
The guide has helped a tremendous amount of women better understand the men in their lives, why they behave the way they do, and give us tools to empower ourselves in our relationships! It’s well worth going through!
Wishing you happiness and love!
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part One)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Two)
The 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away. (Part Final)
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