A man I know recently called the missionary position "vanilla," but after a not-so-scientific poll of several women, I discovered...
A man I know recently called the missionary position "vanilla," but after a not-so-scientific poll of several women, I discovered many of us like to think of it more as caramel-and-chocolate-swirl ice cream, so delicious we could eat it every single night. In fact, of the 14 women I polled, nine named missionary as their favorite angle. Here's what they had to say about it.
"Missionary is just the perfect blend of intimate and fun," says one woman. "Other positions feel really good, but missionary combines that with this intense level of emotion because your faces are so close—unless you keep your eyes closed for the entire time, you kind of have to make eye contact."
"I'm just going to say the thing you're not supposed to say, and that is that I love missionary because it lets me be lazy," says another. "Why would I want to bounce all around when it feels just as good to lay on my back, relax, and look up at the man who's turning me on?"
"Whoever said missionary is boring just isn't trying hard enough," another woman says. "You've got constant skin-on-skin contact and can feel every inch of each other with your hands. You can throw your legs over his shoulders to change the angle. You can get rough or kinky—it's the perfect position to experiment with tying each other up. You can whisper sexy things in his ear. You don't have to just lay there."
"How do I say this? No other position rubs my clitoris the right way!" says another. "There's just something about the friction that you can create from that angle that is so much better than any other. In fact, I don't tend to orgasm during intercourse, but this position really helps me get there."
"I know girl-on-top is supposed to be ah-mazing," says one woman. "But, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm too insecure to really enjoy myself that way. I'm thinking, am I going at the right pace? Do I look funny when I lean down? Are those my knees popping? I like missionary because it makes me feel more secure and lets me concentrate on how everything feels."
For the few women who don't place missionary at the top of their sex position list, here are the angles they say bring them to the Big "O."
"Spooning," says one. "It creates this really safe, cozy feeling but can also easily turn into this passionate, romance-novel type of action if you're not feeling lazy. And it gives the guy a chance to incorporate his hands too."
"I really like doggy-style," says another. "I enjoy deep penetration, and this position sure does that. Plus, I don't have to worry about whether I'm making stupid-looking faces, because he can't see me!"
"I like reverse cowgirl," says one woman. "I like to take the reins, forgive my pun, and being on backward gives me a sense of freedom—plus I know he enjoys that view."
Can you relate to anything these women had to say? Do you have a favorite position, and why does it work for you? Glamour.
Real Women Have Spoken: This Is Why We Love the Missionary Position |
"Missionary is just the perfect blend of intimate and fun," says one woman. "Other positions feel really good, but missionary combines that with this intense level of emotion because your faces are so close—unless you keep your eyes closed for the entire time, you kind of have to make eye contact."
"I'm just going to say the thing you're not supposed to say, and that is that I love missionary because it lets me be lazy," says another. "Why would I want to bounce all around when it feels just as good to lay on my back, relax, and look up at the man who's turning me on?"
"Whoever said missionary is boring just isn't trying hard enough," another woman says. "You've got constant skin-on-skin contact and can feel every inch of each other with your hands. You can throw your legs over his shoulders to change the angle. You can get rough or kinky—it's the perfect position to experiment with tying each other up. You can whisper sexy things in his ear. You don't have to just lay there."
"How do I say this? No other position rubs my clitoris the right way!" says another. "There's just something about the friction that you can create from that angle that is so much better than any other. In fact, I don't tend to orgasm during intercourse, but this position really helps me get there."
"I know girl-on-top is supposed to be ah-mazing," says one woman. "But, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm too insecure to really enjoy myself that way. I'm thinking, am I going at the right pace? Do I look funny when I lean down? Are those my knees popping? I like missionary because it makes me feel more secure and lets me concentrate on how everything feels."
For the few women who don't place missionary at the top of their sex position list, here are the angles they say bring them to the Big "O."
"Spooning," says one. "It creates this really safe, cozy feeling but can also easily turn into this passionate, romance-novel type of action if you're not feeling lazy. And it gives the guy a chance to incorporate his hands too."
"I really like doggy-style," says another. "I enjoy deep penetration, and this position sure does that. Plus, I don't have to worry about whether I'm making stupid-looking faces, because he can't see me!"
"I like reverse cowgirl," says one woman. "I like to take the reins, forgive my pun, and being on backward gives me a sense of freedom—plus I know he enjoys that view."
Can you relate to anything these women had to say? Do you have a favorite position, and why does it work for you? Glamour.
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