The 4 Texts a Guy Should Never Send To a Woman.

Texting and other messaging services are great ways to keep in contact with friends and even romantic interests. Two major advantages they...

Texting and other messaging services are great ways to keep in contact with friends and even romantic interests.

Two major advantages they offer are easy contact with others when you’re separated, and the ability to think through what you say. I wish I had these instant messaging options when I was in high school! It would’ve helped my dating woes, at least a little.

However, like all good things in life, there are downsides to texting. Certainly, the major issues revolve around how instant access to another person isn’t always the best thing, especially since there isn’t an “unsend” feature available.

Consequently, a guy’s texts can sometimes make or break a potential relationship. With that in mind, here are four types of texts that a guy should never send.

An Unsolicited Racy Pic

Women are much less visual than men. So, while a guy might love to see a half naked pic of a random woman, the opposite isn’t true. Sure, women like a good looking body. But, if you’re a random stranger, you should start with conversation and don’t send pics of anything but your face until you’re sure she is attracted to you and comfortable with you.

You should never, ever send her a pic below the belt, unless she is specifically into that thing and asks for it. Even then, for your own dignity and future employment prospects, just don’t.

Needy, Pitiful, or Demanding Messages

Guys can often get attached to one particular girl. This means that their brains can be wired to desperately want her attention. When they can’t get that attention, they can become needy, whiny, and demanding. And, it’s not attractive.

Some guys think coming across as pitiful is a great way to get female romantic attention. It will get you attention, and maybe an “awwww,” but it won’t be romantic. Girls don’t date guys they feel sorry for.
Also, if a girl is busy, guys need to respect it. Sending a bunch of “why aren’t you responding?” texts or “calling her out” for not responding are way too needy. Be detached and give her the space she needs to live her life. And, if she doesn’t get back to you regularly, then a guy should find a more interested girl who will.

An Unreturned Expression of Love

There is nothing wrong with expressing love over text. However, declaring your love over text can be a disaster under two circumstances.

First, never declare your love “out of the blue” to a woman on text. A guy may stare at a female acquaintance for months, and eventually “spill his guts” over text (because it is easier) about his love, thinking it is really romantic. It isn’t. It is just creepy. Avoid declaring love this way in person too, but that is for another article.

Second, don’t say “I love you” for the first time over text or message. It’s not romantic and it’s not special. Save that moment for when you see her in person. No girl dreams of hearing words of love from her special someone via a kilobyte of text.

Anything Said In An Impaired State

Finally, you don’t want to send any text when you are impaired in any fashion. This doesn’t have to be a “drunk” text. If you are enraged, super horny, emotional, anxious, or in any extreme state, you might want to hold off on the texting. Or, at least wait a few minutes to hit send.

Oftentimes we say things we don’t mean or make outright ridiculous comments when we’re upset or in some type of extreme emotional state. For example, if you’re really sad because you’re single, it’s best not to text a girl you like telling her how awful life is. Instead, wait until you’re feeling better and can show her your (hopefully) excellent self.

So, while I believe texting can be great for your dating life, there are texts you should never send. These are four general examples. However, anything that makes you look bad or you know you’ll regret can be added to this list.

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